Dear Tara, Teresa, Sal, Steven, and Chrissy,
When I think of Michael, I think of him smiling and acting goofy. He enjoyed life and everyone around him knew it. His laugh always made me smile, even though I was never sure what mischief he and the boys were cooking up! Paul and Charlie always loved hanging out with Mike; he knew how to have fun. When it came to bikes, from the first BMX he rode in the neighborhoods of Cedar Park, to the his first motorcycle, Mike was fearless. No matter how hard he landed or how much damage the bike suffered, he would get up laughing, and go again; he was never afraid of getting hurt. But Mike had a gentle side, too. I remember one night he came over on that yellow motorcycle. Tyler, the boys' 6 year old nephew, was here. Mike sat Tyler on the seat in front of him and rode up and down the street; he went real slow and made sure Tyler was holding on tight. Tyler was thrilled and wanted to go again and again.
Then in the next minute, (after Tyler got off the bike), Mike was peeling out and leaving skid marks on the sidewalk in front on my house. (The marks are still there!) I'd see Mike looking over his shoulder and smiling as he drove away.
What an experience going cross-country with the boys to deliver them to MMI. Mike and Paul were so excited to have escaped the great disappointment of the military and to have landed in a place full of chrome, two wheeled vehicles, endless partying, and tattoos! They did a lot of growing up and I'm pretty sure they did a lot more that we don't want to know about!
When Charlie joined them in Phoenix, and the three of them were together again, I'm guessing Mike had to break up a few fights between P & C. Mike was a good sport; he'd just laugh at them when they got too serious.
And, Tara, there was never any question about how Mike felt about you. He loved you with his whole heart.
The family was everything to Mike. How wonderful that you were able to share so much.
I will always remember Mike with great fondness; his memory lives in my heart. I will be praying for your comfort and strength. I regret that I cannot be there but know that my thoughts are with you.
Much love,
Betty Lou